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He's Just Not That Into You

Original title: He's Just Not That into You

  • 2009
  • 2 h 9 min
  • United States, Germany

Overview

Following a tepid date with real estate agent Conor Barry, Gigi is befriended by bar owner Alex, who suggests she misinterprets romantic signals. As their friendship continues, she interprets his helpfulness as a sign he is attracted to her. Alex rebuffs Gigi, chastising her for ignoring his advice. As Gigi moves on from Alex, he realizes he is in love with her. After leaving several unanswered messages, he arrives at Gigi's apartment after her return from a date, declares his love and they end up kissing. Gigi's co-worker, Janine Gunders, obsesses over her home renovations while her husband, Ben, becomes attracted to yoga instructor and aspiring singer Anna Marks. They pursue a flirtatious friendship supposedly while he helps her establish a singing career. Ben reveals he only married Janine after she delivered an ultimatum, either marry or break up. He agrees to only be friends with Anna, but she continues pressing until they sleep together. Finding cigarette butts hidden in the backyard, Janine accuses Ben of smoking again, citing her father's death from lung cancer for her anger. He blames the workmen at their house. During a tense home improvement shopping trip, Ben confesses his infidelity. Devastated, Janine blames herself and wants to save their marriage; Ben seems less enthusiastic. Later, Anna and Ben begin having sex in his office, and he strips her to her lingerie. They are interrupted by Janine, who arrives hoping to spice up their marriage. Forced to hide in a closet and listen as Ben and Janine have sex, Anna afterward leaves in disgust, ending their affair. As Janine tidies up Ben's clothes at home, she discovers a pack of cigarettes and explodes in anger. When he returns, she is gone, leaving his clothes folded on the staircase with a carton of cigarettes and a note asking for a divorce. Janine moves into an apartment to restart her life, and Anna is seen performing at an upscale nightclub. Alone, Ben buys beer at the same supermarket where he met Anna. Anna enjoys a close friendship with Alex's friend, Conor. Though she wants a casual relationship, he misinterprets her playful affection as something more. Anna's friend, Mary Harris, works in advertising sales for a local gay newspaper and helps Conor promote his real estate business. Like Gigi, she meets many men, mostly online, but despite constantly monitoring her emails, pager, phone, and MySpace messages, her dates go nowhere. While Conor attempts to cultivate a gay clientele, they explain how he is going wrong with Anna. Taking their advice, he declares his love to her. Feeling vulnerable after what happened with Ben, Anna agrees to a more serious relationship. When Conor later proposes buying a house and moving in together, she admits she is uninterested, so they return to being just friends. Mary later runs into Conor, recognizing him from his ad photo, having only spoken to him over the phone. They hit it off, and start dating. Gigi's co-worker Beth Murphy lives with her boyfriend Neil, a friend of Ben's. After seven years together, Beth wants to get married, but Neil opposes marriage. Gigi announces she will no longer misinterpret vague gestures and comments, and says that men who delay marrying likely never will. Beth confronts Neil, who insists he will never marry, so she ends it. Preparations for Beth's younger sister's wedding reopen the issue after Beth hears multiple backhanded comments from family members. During the reception, her father Ken suffers a heart attack. Beth cares for him as he recuperates at home while her sisters wallow and their husbands binge watch television, constantly ordering takeout while not helping at all. Beth's patience wanes as the household grows more dysfunctional and the chores pile up. However, just when she is about to snap, she is shocked to find Neil, who learned of her father's heart attack and rushed over, finishing the dishes in a now clean kitchen, doing the laundry, and restocking the fridge. They reconcile, with Beth assuring Neil she wants him back without being married. Neil later proposes, and they wed aboard his sailboat.

Original title
He's Just Not That into You
Runtime
2 h 9 min
Released
2009-02-12, Germany
Countries
United States, Germany
Original language
English

Release history

  1. Germany
  2. Hungary

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Production

Baltimore, Maryland was selected for the setting of He's Just Not That into You as an alternative to the common New York City, Chicago, or Los Angeles settings of romantic comedies. In addition, screenwriter Marc Silverstein had lived in the city for several years prior to attending college. Exterior shots were filmed in the city for two weeks during November 2007. Interior scenes were filmed in Los Angeles. The film was released on February 6, 2009, by Warner Bros. Pictures.

Reception

On Rotten Tomatoes, the film has an approval rating of 42% from critics based on 167 reviews, with an average rating of 5.2/10. The website's critics consensus reads, "Despite the best efforts of a talented ensemble cast, He's Just Not That into You devotes too little time to each of its protagonists, thus reducing them to stereotypes." On Metacritic, the film has a weighted average score of 47 out of 100 based on 32 reviews, indicating "mixed or average" reviews. Audiences surveyed by CinemaScore gave the film a grade B+ on a scale of A to F.

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