
Overview
See production notesIn 1984, Iranian physician Sayyed Bozorg "Moody" Mahmoody lives a quiet, happy life in Michigan with his American wife, Betty, and their young daughter, Mahtob. Moody tells Betty his family wants to meet her and Mahtob and asks them to accompany him for a two-week visit to Iran. Despite her deep fears, Betty reluctantly agrees after Moody promises on the Quran that they will safely return to America. Upon their arrival, Moody and Mahtob are embraced, while Betty's unfamiliarity with the Islamic lifestyle offends Moody's family. One evening, Moody reveals he had been fired from the hospital two days prior to their departure. Betty promises they will rectify the situation when they get home. The night before their return flight, Moody's brother Mammal tells them that their passports should have been taken to the airport for approval three days ago. Moody reveals he never intended for them to return, and that they will live in Iran where he will work as a doctor. When Betty protests, Moody becomes enraged and strikes her. Betty tries to earn sympathy from Moody's family, but is scorned by them. The Iran–Iraq War continues, and Moody becomes more hostile and abusive towards Betty, preventing her from leaving the house or using the telephone, claiming his family supervise her. One day, Betty's mother calls Betty and directs her to the American Interests Section of the Swiss Embassy. There, she reaches to Swiss diplomat, Nicole Ajamian, and learns that under Iranian nationality law, she obtained Iranian citizenship upon her marriage to Moody and thus is not entitled to consular protection. Because Iran is an Islamic republic governed by sharia law, Betty cannot leave the country or make decisions concerning Mahtob without Moody's permission. Moody discovers Betty's absence from the house and threatens to kill her if she tries anything again. Betty reluctantly conforms to Moody's wishes for his trust, and they move into Mammal's home. At the market, Betty meets Hamid, a kind, sympathetic storekeeper who allows her to use his telephone and overhears her plea for help. He puts her in contact with humanitarian Iranians Houssein and his sister Nassimi, who offer to help Betty and Mahtob return home. Betty accepts Houssein's assistance after he warns her that Mahtob becomes eligible for marriage or conscription at 9 years old. Betty accompanies Mahtob to her new Iranian school. Betty meets with Houssein and they discuss an escape route. One morning, she and Mahtob arrive at school, finding Moody waiting for them; he viciously attacks Betty and strikes Mahtob. They return home with Moody, who separates them to taunt Betty, but later returns following another missile attack. Six months later, Betty learns that her father is seriously ill. Moody agrees to let her see him in America, yet without Mahtob. He orders her to liquidate their assets while there. Betty and Mahtob sneak out of the house while Moody is called to the hospital. Houssein supplies Betty and Mahtob with fake identity documents, and they make their way past checkpoints across the Persian Gulf. Betty and Mahtob find themselves in Ankara, where they see the flag of the American Embassy in the distance. They return safely to the United States, where Betty divorces Moody, then goes on to become a successful author and dedicate herself to helping those in similar situations.
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See all quotesMoody: I don't know how to say this to you. We're not going back. We're staying here. Betty: [pauses] What do you mean? How long? Moody: I want to get a job here in a hospital. Betty: What? Moody: I want us... to live in Iran. Betty: [softly] No... No... Moody: There's nothing for me in America. Betty: No... What? Are you crazy? We're Americans. Your daughter's an American! Moody, honey, you're upset about your job. I understand that. We're going to go back today and we're going to fix it. Moody: I want Mahtob to grow up here. Betty: [increasingly angry] No! Moody: I think she should become a Muslim! Betty: [screams] No! No! [pauses] You lied to me. You lied to me! You held the Koran and you swore to me that nothing was going happen. You were planning this all the time. You lied to me!
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Betty: Baba Hajji, you're a religious man. How can Moody swear on the Koran and do this to me? Mammal: Allah will forgive him! Betty: No, no! Ameh Bozorg! Ameh Bozorg, please help me, please! Betty: No, you can't do this! God damn you! God damn you! You can't keep me here! You had this planned all along! Damn you!
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Betty: Dear Lord, hear our prayer. Mahtob: Dear Lord, hear out prayer. Betty: Please help us leave Iran and get back to America. Mahtob: Please help us leave Iran and get back to America. Betty: Please let nothing separate us. Mahtob: Please let nothing separate us. Betty: And keep us always safe in Your care. Mahtob: And keep us always safe in Your care. Betty: Amen. Mahtob: Amen.
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Nicole: [in the American Interest Section of the Swiss Embassy] My name is Nicole Adjamian. Betty: Yes. Betty Mahmoody. This is my daughter, Mahtob. Nicole: Please do sit. Betty: Thank you. We're so glad to see you. I spoke with my mother in the United States and I know that the State Department is into this. We're just very happy to be here. We'll sleep anywhere for as long as it takes until you can get us out. Nicole: [confused] What are you talking about? You cannot stay here. Betty: I can't go back to my husband. I want to go home to the United States. Nicole: That may be, but you are in Iran. You are married to an Iranian? Betty: Yes. Nicole: Then you are an Iranian citizen. Betty: No. No I'm not. I'm an American citizen and my daughter is an American citizen. We were born in the United States. We have American passports. I mean, we don't have them with us. My husband has them. We've never changed our citizenship. Nicole: If you marry an Iranian man, you automatically become an Ir
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Betty: Have you become Muslim? Ellen: Mm-hmm. Betty: Did you convert? Ellen: Well, I wanted to, I guess. My husband was happy I did. It made things a lot better. Ellen: Uh, I... I got to go. Betty: Ellen, it's been so... Ellen: No, really.
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Betty Mahmoody: [about Ellen's husband] Was he violent? Ellen: No, not in the States, never. They're not supposed to, you know? It's not Islamic.
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